Quote: I know it sounds like I am really pushing ultimatums but at some point the suffering has to stop. Is it savable if you remain patient? Maybe, depends on who you ask. Dr. Laura says no. She says SSM are doomed. I really hate seeing people hurt and these sitchs just seem to agonize on and on. If you are strong enough to survive "status quo", good for you. I mean that. Personnally, I am a demanding guy who wants a lot out of life and I don't settle. Sorry, but patience is one virtue I am truly lacking in. Good luck to all.
so, tbone the only answer I've got is ultimatums? they haven't worked in the past...how's this for a direct telling of what may lie ahead for h...
h, eventually I will be out in the world, working, school etc and some man will find interest in me want to spend time with me be physical with me and I am to say no sorry I've got a man at home who doesn't want me but I have to be faithful just because.
and yes I did once call a laywer to file for d myself (shortly after he came home) wich did elicit some temporary change but as we all know...most changes aren't lasting.
H knows what can happen...heck his ow was married...did that not show him what people will do when their needs aren't being met?
who the hell knows what is going to happen in the end if I become yet another statistic of failed marriage it truly will be the children who suffer no matter what age they are.
