I will warn you about doing too much marriage counseling until the A is over and NC is in effect.

You want help coping with the current situation, but I strongly believe there is no hope for healing/repairing the marriage while the A is ongoing. If there is any type of contact, the A is ongoing. Maybe you should both attend the 1st session together and then each see her separately until NC is in place? It is good if you are all on the same page.

And Stop saying you are "sending" him! He is "going". Semantics matter!




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