You are consumed by the idea of your W "taking away" your D, but you dug your own grave. The only way to dig out is to start following the advice that you've been given in this thread.
I believe someone in my former thread advised me to go out on a date or two to build up my self esteem, which I did. People advised me to not contact my ex, which I'm now doing. People advised me to GAL, which I'm also doing. I've been adivsed to see an IC and get meds...all of which I'm doing. And since I couldnt give a care about being with my ex anymore, anything I'm doing now is certainly for me.
And as far as my IC goes, I've told him everything thats gone on, and he seems to feel that given whats happened my actions/reactions, while not the most prudent decisions, were understandable.
isnt it sad though...that I'm the one with family values who wanted to try and get/keep my family together in any way I could for myself and D3, and I end up being the bad guy. Because my ex is a woman, she has a right to change her mind and walk out on me and our family...she's allowed to do what she thinks will make her happy and anyone who gets hurt is just collateral damage. But if the situation were reversed and I had done it to her instead, I'd be the scum of the earth...again "the bad guy".
