When given the "ultimatum" to either work this out or we end the M, HE CHOSE to not work on it. He refused and was scared with what he might find out about himself. I cannot understand this. There is no OP, PA, EA in this situation. He wants a roommate, a pal, a caretaker, a mother, NOT A WIFE. I need a husband and I sure don't have one except in name only.
Yet another blow to us that try with all of our might to help our blind spouses see what could and should be. They choose to go into the cave of darkness and drag us with them. He does not want the M to work. He would rather be alone. I cannot fathom why.
