I agree with Lotus re reasons. Why now? Why not now? I have realised through this that you cannot influence someone elses timeline you can only navigate it whilst GALing, looking after you and living your own life.
This is your family, your life and your decision.
Take it slow, make sure it is the right decision for you. Keep the pressure and expectations low for now and see what happens imo. It sounds like he is still a bit of a rabbit in headlights at the moment. It is quite a sudden and big decision for the both of you so digest it.
