Thank you everyone. The therapist I'm sending him too, is very pro-marriage and uses solution-based therapy. She does also have experience with addiction. I also read on her site that she holds seminars, one of which talks about saving your M, something about couples in crisis.


Together 16 years
Married 12 years
Me 36
H 34
D9 & S6
Separated 12/3/09
Confirmed A 1/25/10
Exposed A 1/26/10
H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10