H wants to talk tomorrow! Please advise.

[luvless]

We can't control what our idiot spouses do.

I do hope your husband comes to his senses. Some people actually like living that way, but people like us (and most others on this board) like a more stable and civilized life. Perhaps you should envision a life without all the drama. Would it be worse than what you're going through now?

I needed to read this today