Thanks guys! Wow! 'Sacking up' here. Your responses and suggestions were exactly what I needed. I was so close to responding as per usual...

RobX that Rocky quote is as good as tattooed on my brain, thanks for that... so true. Hadn't seen the 'film' wink

I think I'll decided NOT to respond at all which is a complete 180 of what I would ordinarily do! I'm very communicative, and always take every opportunity (even when she's not threatening D) to write, respond, etc.

I think she's anxious to get back into the house and have me 'disappear' so she doesn't have to deal with me, the sitch, or the pain.

Thanks again ALL!!!!!!!! I am SO grateful to you, and hope to give back when I gain more strength.


Eternal optimist


LBS (me):48
WAW:44
Married:11 T: 16
Separated: 02/10/10
Separated: one year first time, two years ago
Sitch: http://bit.ly/baqySm