Yay for selling your car! It is empowering, just like learning how to use power tools. So does this mean you'll be relying on MUNI?
I understand about wanting to make H man up and file. But sometimes it's just not going to happen and you have to do it yourself. If it won't hurt you legally or emotionally to wait then I say wait. Just live your life and move forward. If at any time it does start to hinder you then you have to be the mature and responsible one to get things done. It's not fair, but life isn't fair.
Just keep doing what is best for you.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g