Tbone(head), I'm sorry if this comes off as offensive..ok, maybe I'm not. But look dude I tried to phrase it in a nicer way earlier. We HD women do NOT need lessons on how to attract a man. I know that I'm a hot looking cat and I know how to shake the damn string!
The fact that my husband doesn't always notice the moving string is not my problem or my fault. I don't go anywhere that I do not attract male attention. Like LL, I am a young attractive stay at home mother.
The answer CANNOT be to move on and find another cat who likes moving string. In some cases, yes. In all of them? Every person out there whose marriage has libido discrepencies should up and leave and move on to greener pastures? What kind of advice is that for LL?
I don't know what the answer is for her, either, but I hope that we can all help her brainstorm a new strategy.
It just pisses me off that the "typical" male response to this particular problem is one of two things: To coach the woman on how to get a man's attention (unnecessary and condescending) or tell her to leave and find a real man.
I just find this advice to be non-effective. Sortof like how people will tell a man to do housework in order to get his wife sexually attracted to him--that doesn't work either, imo.
