I can't live with someone who will lie about the dumbest things. I mean, if you are going to lie to me about something that trivial, what is next?
It seriously makes me wonder if the entire marriage was one big fat lie.
Same here for me as well. My WAW can lie to me that it is raining on a sunny day and expect me to believe it. I honestly cannot believe a thing she says, but strangely I fall into the trap of wanting to believe her. I have fought for so long to save the marriage without really contemplating the fact that this would mean living with someone who I no longer trust at all. Now when things appear she may be having second thoughts, it scares the hell out of me that she might reconsider and come home, while at the same time gives me hope that we could rebuild the R. I know - I am one confused DB'er!
