Dear TTA, I just wanted to say what a fantastic job I think you are doing throughout this process, and good words of advice you have gotten from Pearl and others! I was thinking of you this weekend as I was also packing up things for my move...got a little teary a few times and then empowered doing this on my own at others. It's not easy, and you are farther along in this process than I was at the time, so close to the separation.
It's fantastic that you have these things to look forward to, and also a good sign that H is going to IC and dealing w his issues. It doesn't seem like he's in a place to be a full H now to you anyways, so best he deal w his own issues too, regardless of the outcome.
I'll be thinking of you a lot in the days/weeks ahead, as I'm about to move out of my place too and completely start over..and nothing filed with me yet either. Daunting, but I'm trying to look at it as liberating as I can. We are ultimately in charge of our own happiness, and even though I know you experience setbacks here and there, you have a good attitude.
Wishing you a good week and much strength! I too have been going to church a lot more across these past few months which has been a huge source of comfort. I feel someone/thing is looking out for me, and for you and all of us here too! -hhh
