my h doesn't know why he'd rather cuddle on the couch than have sex or accept a bj....my h doesn't know why he doens't approach me often and/or rejects most of my advances...my h doens't know why he doesn't think about sex ever 2 seconds...my h doesn't know why he'd rather go to sleep than have sex...my h doesn't know other than to say..."that's just the way I am"
Either h truly doesn't know or he's stupid...cause honesty would be far less hurtful than saying nothing or claiming ignorance.