Thanks Gima: I agree with what you are saying. I think it's possible for me to continue with my own life, and not hasten the divorce, as hard as it will be. At this point, I have almost nothing to do with W, except for co-parenting and splitting house bills. It looks like little of that will change once we D, except I we will not share a home.
I think my question still stands, but I'll think hard about what you said. Thanks as always, my friend.
You have just described my current existence. And, I am getting pretty good at it, unfortunately. Fire away with any questions. It's a tough place if you don't have your focus on the right direction - FORWARD.
