Pressing just makes the wall around the H go up even further, higher, thicker. What is hloding these men back when they have attractive, willing, desireable women in their lives? When their hormonal levels are normal? When they refuse counseling because it is all just "psycobabble bullsh!t" (His words, not mine)
Sometimes the silence is answer enough. Cold, hard, unfeeling rejection of the woman that they married and promised to love, honor and cherish. They forgot their wedding vows, we have not.
LL and I did not marry idiots. These guys have functioning minds but as far as emotions go, my stbx flees from any emotion. They have been encouraged to open up to us, but won't. I did not expect to be married to a silent angry man. He seems like such a nice guy in person. Get alone with him and he is silent, sullen and withholds affection for what reason? Dammed if I know...
