Kerry - I've watched fireproff. I cried my eyes out. I actually purchased the book and tried to follow the steps but given where the W is it did not work. It did however, show me the errors of some of my ways.

The W appears to be looking for total selfishness, which is very tough given our sitch. Part of me does not trust her and I find myself doing things to protect myself, which if caught will probably back fire in my face. In two weeks I am due to recieve a bonus, which is totally stressing me out. Part of me want to divert some of it; however, I have a funny feeling that I will get caught. Part of me want to use it to pay down the bills. My IC says I should not rush to pay down the debt as this will make it easier for her to leave. This is a tough one guys...a tough one. Any thoughts?

"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter".
"Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!"
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