WOW.. Trying... Trying.. Trying.... Where do I begin...
Come on man.. Wise up...Stop doing this to yourself.. It is no wonder your wife can't get her feelings back for you...
You are wishy washy.. One minute you tell her to move out, then when she says she will, you cave.. The next minute you want her to stay and OFFER her an open marriage.....
Come on man... Toughen up. This is totally weak and unatttractive to most ANY woman..
You now "email" the OM and then in the email tell him he isn't dealing with you like "a man"... I would have to say that "emailing" an OM is very weak and wimpy... Why not confront him face to face? (I don't recommend that, but emailing him is showing nothing but weakness)
Come on man... Toughen up here....You are obsessed and need a 180... NOW..
Here is what you should do..
Total change of attitude. (Like when you first met her and SHE CHASED YOU) She can't chase if you don't run the other way...
I read through all your threads.. What you are doing is NOT working. Admit that. Stop doing things that don't work.Start doing things that do work. Men that are successful with women do NOT chase a woman who tells them they don't want them. Men who are successful with women do NOT tolerate a woman having a blantant affair and allow her to continue to live with him. Either she goes or he goes. If she won't leave, HE DOES. It isn't up for negotiation. (I notice negotiation hasn't worked)
Start to get decisive here. Make a strong, confident decision and tell her what "you have decided".. Then STAND by that and let the chips fall where they may. Either she comes back and starts chasing you or she doesn't... No biggie for you either way.. Start going out and having the time of YOUR life without her. Talk and intereact with the opposite sex. You have made yourself very very unattractive and if you don't turn around here then you are doomed.
Confident, happy men are the ones who get the women. Men who pursue and chase and go wishy washy and keep trying to win a woman who has over and over told him she doesn't want him are destined for failure. No woman can have feelings of love for a man who won't let go and move on without her...There are plenty of examples on this site of men like this. I could name more than a couple of men who are STILL on here trying things to win their women back after one year, going on two years etc. etc... Still not working for them, but they still refuse to see it.(plan number 1500 and counting) Still trying. Still losing. How sad. Don't be one of those men. That just doesn't work. Admit it and change course. Getting tough and strong works far far better. Let her see and feel a man who doesn't share his woman. That is done by showing her with action that you will no linger do ONE thing to win her back or try to make this work. It is ALL now up to her. If she stays with him.. So be it...
Let HER chase you.. That is how you won her in the first place and is the only way to win her back. Get you manhood back and toughen up. Enough is enough...
