We all too often blame depression as a cause for our problems. He's depressed. She's depressed. It's still painful to confront ourselves when someone else tells us they don't love us anymore, or, they love someone else more.

Many people WILL be depressed when they face either losing the spouse they love, or, leaving the spouse they loved. However, to think that treating the depression or waiting for it to go away, will bring love back, is ridiculous.

Kalni...keep things in perspective. Time is on your side. Play the game of Twister...keep one hand on your faith and the other foot well planted in reality.

Sagapo.

FIB

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;