Does Retrouvaille addressissues of the "self" and help the unfaithful spouse understand the affair?
Retrouvaille is aimed primarily at helping two spouses reconnect and learn to communicate effectively. While you can use the tools they supply to help discuss these issues, you are really encouraged to focus on where you are presently and how to improve the relationship going forward.
A quote from yesterday's post session: "You can't change the past, and you can't predict the future; all you can do is focus on the here and now."
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement
