When you're in touch with your core value, you cannot do wrong. Remember that. Especially when you're interacting with others, like women. Just stay in touch with your core value, and you don't have to worry about focusing on the negatives, or anything else that you do or don't bring to the table when approaching women. You can never lose core value, but you can lose touch with it. So, stay in touch with it, always, and you cannot do wrong.
Don't make assumptions either. You don't know what they're thinking or not thinking. And besides, it doesn't matter. Don't take it personally. What others do or think is because of themselves. Nothing others do is because of you. A lot of the crap in our lives is because we make assumptions and take things personally. Think about that for a minute. Most of the crap between people is about making assumptions and taking things personally.
"Always go straight forward, and if you meet the devil, cut him in two and go between the pieces." - William Sturgis, clipper ship captain, 1830's.
