Personally, I'm not a big fan of good reasons and bad reasons. I think reasons don't matter. Actions matter. Fact is, you are his wife. Are you going to act like his wife and help him get through the difficult times in life, or are you going to cut and run when the going gets tough? There is no one who is going to get through a normal lifespan without trouble. So if you find a different H there will be troubled times with him too. This is what it is. Yeah, we need the people who love us when the chips are down.