Thank you Lost. As alway i appreciate your insight. Re: my daughter that would explain it. I also noticed that W seems a little depressed re: how she is dealing with the kids. I slowed down doing some of the housework lately and she had a ton of laundry to catch up with. I re-play the convo we had yesterday and I can now see that some of her point re: my comments were a little manipulative or angry. This is something that i need to work on. I aslo think that what she is looking for is total unselfishness on my part. In terms of the school thing - I'm gonna sit on this for a bit, still do my research and see how thing progress over the next few weeks. Yesterday I really saw her anger and pain. She really is in a crisi and cannot see it. I realy feel for her.
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