Allen, Thank you for all this advice. I totally forgot about that video link you sent me. I will watch it on Wed night. I've made him an appt for this Thursday. Hopefully it will help him sort through his issues.
Together 16 years Married 12 years Me 36 H 34 D9 & S6 Separated 12/3/09 Confirmed A 1/25/10 Exposed A 1/26/10 H hired L, but not filed yet 1/27/10