feel like giving up - pt 2

[luvless]

Feel like crap this morning and it's a beautiful day outside. Something needs to remind me my life is going to be ok.

[soleil]

Hey Luv. Just reading up on your sitch. I am sending you a great big hug. Don't worry...things will and DO get better.

I have nothing to offer but my support for you...

Do something for youself today.

[luvless]

I don't feel like doing a damn thing today but here are my 3 things I'm forcing myself to do.

1 - look at getting myself a new car
2 - walk the park
3 - coffee and reads at barnes n noble

[soleil]

Ah... a coffee and books sounds like a perfect way to spend your day.

Even if you don't WANT to do something, doing something will alleviate stuff going on in your head... Big hugs.

Luv, can you read my latest post in my thread and response please?

[crushed_v95]

I would so join you at B&N... but since I can't, might I suggest a book by a psychoanalyst named Robert Glover. The title is *No More Mr. Nice Guy*.

Yes, I realize you're a female, but you might like it anyway. If you read past the overtly masculine structure you'll see in the subtext that it talks about people like us, who derive our self-worth from the opinions of others, and who are endlessly trying to find happiness by kissing the behinds of everyone else. Our spouses obviously don't respect this and it doesn't work, but we keep doing it and never stop to wonder why we aren't blissfully happy.

Have fun at the park too. Peace!

[luvless]

Hey crushed,

I've been meaning to check out that book...my H is definately no more mr nice guy!

I never kissed my H behind...he was the pursuer in our R.

Thanks for stopping by C - I like to read your stuff.

[TrentC]

If you are still trying to rebuild a relationship with your WAS, I would recommend "Getting Back Together" by Bettie Youngs and Masa Goetz. I'm in the middle of the book right now.

You can see a limited preview of the book here:

http://books.google.com/books?id=ibS6BImYcGQC&pg=PP1&dq=getting+back+together&cd=1

[luvless]

Thanks Trent - I'll take a look.

I've been researching attorneys and making appts for some have to stuff. H has text two times since on his trip (a generic text he sends to all of us) but no calls. He's been gone for 7 days now. He sent me some pics monday and some more tuesday - WTF? are you serious? I didn't even look at them.

I'm being a busy bee around the house and trying to get ducks in a row (as G says)

Luv

[Gnosis]

Just be careful you don't start shooting them ducks before they're perfectly lined up. And shooting means: working on yourself, improving yourself, becoming a better woman.

Still around but laying low until you know what you want.

EDIT: I am still around and will continue laying-low until you figure out what it is you want and what you are going to do to get it.

[luvless]

I KNOW what I want...my marriage to work but that is not my decision it's HIS.

I am busy doing for me. I won't shoot my ducks - ever.