I have been thinking about Retrouvaille for some time but unfortunately my seperated wife and I are not there yet. She is still in withdrawal from her A and deciding if she wants to make the marriage work again. She doesn't want to take the easy way back tot he marriage I do have a question though. Much of what my W is currently going through has alot to do with herself, even though she blames the demise of the marriage 100% on me (Trust me I own my issues and have resolved them and she has recognized this)but she doesn't see that she has a part to play (i.e low self esteem childhood issues). She is also going through MLC and discovered her sexuality through this affair. Does Retrouvaille addressissues of the "self" and help the unfaithful spouse understand the affair?
