Wow, it sounds like you are really starting to detach. I had a similar situation with H last night too and I'm pretty annoyed with it. I would like to hear what his excuse is this time b/c that is pretty bad just to seemingly ignore you when you were taking the time to ask about how HE was doing and telling him about S, etc. I think you are wise to let him iniate the next contact though. You did more than enough last night to show him that you were there for him and care for him, so it's his turn to take the next step. And hopefully, he's not that much of a coward to just go dark so he doesn't have to make a decision.
Glad you had a good weekend though despite H. Sounded like a lot of fun! It definitely is a great feeling to get out and have fun with other young adults sometimes.
Great news about the job. I'm sure it's going to be tough for you but at least you will have that comfort that despite what happens with H, you will be able to provide for yourself and S.
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10