Quote: --------- So, where are we going with these questions? ---------
I learned a simple lesson long ago. Anytime something, anything becomes a mystery, you have missed something simple.
Unfortunately, it took a while for me to apply that to my own marriage, even though it serves me well on a daily basis in other areas of my life.
So my point is this; What is it that he is holding against you, in simple terms.
If you are indeed attractive physically and/or mentally, and he is functioning normally, then he is making a choice not to pursue you.
Maybe he is intimidated by you. Maybe that is why he had to have an affair - to prove his worth elsewhere. Maybe he feels that he will never measure up to your standards.
Don't let his motivations become a mystery to you. Make him tell you what the real reason is, then do something about it.
All the best, -NOPkins-
I will ferret out an affair at any opportunity.
-An affair is the embodiment of entitlement, fueled by resentment and lack of respect. -An infidel will remain unreachable so long as their sense of entitlement exceeds their ability to reason.
