Thanks Snodderly. There is a fax on it's way to XHs L as I type regarding parental responsibility. I'm relieved to say that I was in the right and XH is very much in the wrong. It will be worth the money it cost to have the letter sent to let him see that he cannot bully me anymore and he certainly cannot try to exclude me from my children's lives.

D14 was really ill again last night. I joked this morning that she is allergic to this house as she always seem to start to vomit again when she comes home. I've spoken to the ward and have agreed to keep her at home for now and to speak to them again later. She must be feeling better as she has just had a nice long soak in the bath which she hasn't even wanted to entertain before today.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15