OMG, HDWife and DQ you both hit the nail right on the head for me!! I am in a one step back month and feeling exactly the same as you two have posted. DQ, I have done the same math you layed out for days of available sex. I was worried I was the only one who did this all the time. I even keep track of my W cycle to know where we are!!

Anyone have any good suggestions on what to do when you hit those one step back months? Last month was great success, this month not so much.

And yes I have been lurking and have never posted but sooo appreciate everyone who has opened up on the SSM board. I love all of you on this thread, your posts here and on other threads have helped me to hang in there these past couple months!