Invoke the 48-hour rule. In fact, if you're disgusted and tired, take no actions at all until the disgusted and tired is gone (or at least lessens a bit).
Yes, this.
Originally Posted By: Awoken
Pushing the divorce now, could be what I need to do to show W what she stands to lose.
I think this could help wake her up, but you have to be ready for the outcome if this doesn't happen.
Originally Posted By: Awoken
I have to consider the continued risk of her drinking and being of meds, but so far it does not appear to be getting worse, and maybe it's improved a little.
Don't kid yourself here - until she gets some REAL help, the problem is still there. It just hasn't reared it's ugly head lately. It doesn't matter that it "does not appear to be getting worse" - it's bad enough as it is. Of course, she's the only one that can help herself. Just keep in mind the effect on your kids.
