My advice to you is that you DO look at your part. It doesn't take one person to make a marriage fail or succeed. If you are ready to throw in the towel after five years, and give up on your children, be ready to accept all that entails.
I'll tell you that until you are divorced you can't imagine the repercussions to your children.
I read on another thread that you all have been married for 5 years, with a 5 year old and a 2 year old. How long did you date before you got married?
And I think that as far as an unpopular decision based on replies to your thread, when you join divorce busting, and say you're filing for divorce, you should expect that.
The other reasons we chimed in weren't because of the divorce but your attitude towards your wife and children.
....Understand, that I can't, not be what I am I'm not the milk, and Cheerios in your spoon ~ Avril Lavigne ~ ..."Nobody's Fool"...
