WAW continues to send mixed messages and continues with actions that condradict each other.

Yesterday she came over for the usual Sunday shopping and dinenr with S18 - D18 was away for the day. WAW told me that she is going to mvoe to a 2 bedroom apt starting April 1st, which extends any possible reconciliation date by 4 months.

Yet...when she came over yesterday I was having a nap. She came into my bedroom (used to be ours)which is my only private space in the house. I guess she felt that was ok, since I was at her apartment last week. She lied down beside me when I invited and that led to a little play. No sex - but some play.

Again, yesterday she said she wants to go away together in spring. I'm not sure that is a smart idea financially or in other way. Things are certainly going well between us, but at some point I should force her to make a choice. But....she's the kind of person that when pushed will choose to the opposite of what she knows I want.

Yeesh!!!!!!


50 years old.

Ontario, Canada

Loving Marriage #2 with the perfect person.