I went out Friday night, saw a couple of friends. Had a real good talk with my uncle that has been divorced twice. He told how the emotions I have will pass with time and I will be able to move on. He let me cry with him and gave me a big hug. So far he is the only one who has shown me any compassion. Besides all of you fine people of course. She texted me asking what I was doing. I didn't reply. Later she texted me wanting to know what time S8 should call to say goodnight. I did reply to that.
This weekend I had S8 and her stupid dog for the both days and nights. I usually just have him Sunday night. She had a wedding party to go to. It was out of town so she stayed in hotel with girlfriends. She even showed me the pictures.
S8 and I went to see Avitar (sp) on Saturday (good movie) and we went book store to buy him a couple of books. She came over Sunday afternoon for about 3 hours. We played the Wii. It was a good time. But I couldn't get it out of my head that she is/maybe sleeping with the OM. We laughed. We shared a couple of glances. But I don't think I'm getting through. I was nice, not showing my pain, dressed nice, looked nice, we didn't talk about the R. I told her she looked nice. She said it looked like I lost a few pounds (i didn't say it was because I don't eat or sleep well)and liked the shirt I had on. I helped her clip her dogs nails and the two them left.
I found out the OM is seeing lots of other people. He does not want to get into a R with my wife yet. She is pissed at him because he is having R w/ some of the other people. She does the rejecting not the other way around. They are going to just be friends w/ benefits for now. I think she was with him Saturday after she dropped S8 off. I'll know more later.
Is it a bad idea to try to catch them? I know what bar he goes to. I know what days they will both be there. Maybe if I expose her she will see what she is doing is wrong. My thought is to walk in, order one beer, make eye contact, finish my beer and leave. What would be the worst that could happen (not going by myself). I will tell her she lied to me, now I know for sure. Then I will tell her she doesn't have to worry about filing for D i will do it. Of course i will tell her exactly what kind of person I think she is, what I think of her, and make sure she knows what this will do to our S8.
