Lotus,
love the idea of a regular date night.. I would also agree with being on guard.

When I read the DR book, Patience is the key. As I want to work on our M and I prepared to wait it out. For how long is the question. Not sure about that one.

Although, I did say to her yesterday that I would love to be able to get physical with her. Her response to me was that she isnt ready yet..
In my book, I will take that as a postive because its always been no. Maybe there is hope? .... I wont hold my breath, lol..

M 43 W 43
S15 S 12 D 10
ILYBNILWY ( Dec 2009)
Sleeping separate rooms April 8 2010.
Sep as of 07/14/2010
W moving out 07/31/2010
No OM confirmed ( yet)