WAW and 4 kids

[tryingtilDorR]

Well we had some 'movement' tonight. I got fed up and told OM a few things via text msg. In a nutshell:

1) Stay away from my kids homewrecker - if you have any contact with them they will know what you have done to my family since my teenagers already know there has been an OM.

2) Any money I pay WAW is for my kids and not your freeloding a**

3) You are a POS and everyone in this town knows it and thiss will just prove the point.

About 45 minutes went by, and I see WAW getting her jacket and keys with her phone in her hand all lit up. I told her "you had better check that phone and then go somewhere so you can talk on it" as she walked out the door.

Then I sent OM this:

Just like clockwork, I knew you would be whining to WAW as a first priority instead of dealing with me like a man

About 90 minutes went by and WAW came back with one of her friends to get her stuff so she could spend the night at her house. She said goodbye to the kids. It is a milestone since she has never left overnight. Funny how it finally happens when I start hassling OM. I hadn't said a word to her about any of it before she left.

Now, the MOST interesting thing happened after this. I told my 2 teenagers:

Your mom is angry at me because I sent some messages to a friend of hers that I don't like very much so she is angry. I am sorry you kids have overheard our arguments and have to see this kind of stuff, but I am hoping that we can work things out still and want to stay married to your your mom. I knoew it might be hard to understand what's going on but some day maybe we can talk about it more.

At that point D16 said:

Dad, I understand. Mom has another phone. It is black and I found it the other day hidden under her clothes. It was ringing and there was a text message.

Kids aren't dumb. I sent my W a note about this, that the phone she has been denying she has was found by D16.