we are working an the actions and reactions for now...talking and giving explanations...sounds weak BUT it is helping tremendously! this is such a BIG part of the issues...on both of our parts.
for now that is mostly what has been happening.we need to lat it all out and be able to take the time to work on it all...petty or not...these things are still important.
time and patience on both of us...
still not 100% that this is even real...seems quite real but how to tell for sure?
he has definatly been himself, that is all i have to go on...i keep reading here and i am almost finished with the 5 love languages...amazing book!
i dont believe we are ready for mc just yet...this has to be a slow process. however...it is no doubt in our furture and h agrees...
me 39 h 38 kids 9 and 6 h left 8/9/09 loving and devoted wife and mother still going...10 months later...
