I think I'd rather be dead than this- WAW

[Quart9]

Keep reading here. Learn about the kind of man that nearly all well-adjusted women would be thrilled to have as a husband and be that man.

Yes - this is definitely what I am gonna do. I want so bad to improve myself and make myself more marketable. I have learned a lot here and from the many R books I have read recently.

The scariest book I think I have ever read: Women's Infidelity. Holy smokes - this book sent shivers down my spine.

Both of my parents have been married four times each.

How long (approximately) were each of these marriages?

Dad: 1st M - maybe 2 years, 2nd M - 9 years, 3rd M - 5 years, and last M 14 years
Mom: 1st M - about 1 year (I think), 2nd M - 9 years, 3rd M - 3 years, and last M over 14 years

I've felt like smashing her face with a brick - the worse thing (for me) is that she had sex with OM whilst she was pregnant with our son and was threatening to have him aborted.

WTF!!! She was sleeping with him while preg and threatened to abort your son?! I am sorry GH31. I appreciate you sharing here, and to be honest I'm surprised that all you wanted to do to her was hit her with a brick. I am shocked she would even consider that! I feel for you man - especially if you are still willing to be with her after that.

Yep definitely making the trip to the attorney's tomorrow. I know that is what she is thinking about doing - I just dunno if she is off work tomorrow and able to do it - heck she might take off to do it.

She hasn't been talking to me recently anyhow and I don't expect that to change.

It will, but probably not yet.

Adulterous wives to respond only to their own discomfort. Yours will do the same in time.

You think she will want to contact me again? That surprises me. I don't get it - what do you mean they respond only to their own discomfort?