marijuana? drugs of some kind at least...or was she doing work "under the table" and evading taxes? Or prostitution? Or working for the mafia?
So let me get this straight...if your ex hadn't left you, you would be TOTALLY OK with her trick-turning, 4:20 loving, horsehead in the bed - it's just business, not personal - Bernie Madoff inspired self? (I'm guessing your ex is cuter than Madoff, but who can tell). Or is it just one of these criminal activities that she's participating in?
Personally, I was hoping for something truly deviant, like cutting tags off of mattresses or failure to pay parking tickets. But it sounds to me like you've got the most bad a$$ movie playing in your head - part Godfather, part Harold and Kumar go to White Castle.
In any case, illegal is illegal. Like someone else said, there's no gray area when it comes to the law. And seriously, you are putting your daughter at risk for Child Protective Services. You really need to think about this.
But since she has left you for an old fart, you want to bring up her failures...although you wouldn't see them as a problem if she was banging you and not him.
Am I missing the logic of this?
Jeez, divorce is hard enough. Why add all of this drama to it?
