Quote: well that's no fun!! thought you were going to do the work for me.
it's hard for me to come up with a plan of action becuase I've been stuck trying so many different things for years I see nothing will work. I do know what I want though just not how to get from here to there.
Nonsense. You know more than you think you do. You know what DOESN'T work, and that is something. You know what KINDA works, and that is something, too. So build on it. Come on, you can do this. If nothing else, jesus, girl, GUESS.
If you are somehow under the misguided impression that I am going to withhold my opinions, well....
Let's brainstorm. Throw stuff at the wall and let's see if it sticks. You have absolutely nothing to loose here, except maybe a few brain cells from overuse.
Go grab a pad of paper and start writing. Just let it flow. Scratch off nothing. Write whatever comes to mind even if it sounds stupid, corny or cheesey.
And then type it up here tomorrow. I have to sign off now and get my kiddies in bed, and need to pay some attention to my H.