HC, I know that it must be tricky when talking to your 12 yo. I would try to convey: "I am disappointed about H's choices, but I love him. He is going to have figure things out, and in the meanwhile you don't have to worry about anything. Time takes care of these things".
me: 42 | STBXH: 41 | T: 18 | M: 10 | separation: Jan 3, 2010 | they deserve better: S7 & D4 current thread: http://tinyurl.com/3y8sxcp .: first breathe, then heal, then start LIVING :.
