Quote: I've got one of those guys that is happy as long as your happy.
Welp, then he's not happy because you sure as heck aren't. And him basing his happiness on your happiness is so frickin' manipulative I can't even stand it. Puts one hell of a lot of pressure on you, now doesn't it? If you would just be happy, then all of us could be happy.
Passive Aggressive bullsh!t, that's what that is.
However, this is interesting:
Quote: Being his friend does get me closer to the goal but not quite there.
How does it get you closer? What are you doing that he responds to when you are acting as his friend?
And, what is the goal? Where do you want to get to by being his friend.
Plan B does include the bedroom, if you want it to.
