She sent me a text to tell me that she was sorry she hurt me but that she has been hurting for the past 4 years/our relationship was not what it needed to be. She says she was not happy in our marriage, she reached out and tried to make changes, asked me to make changes, but when I finally did it was too late - she was done. She says she is sorry that it had to end with me attacking her character and hopes I can see her side of the story one day.
All four years were bad huh? None of it was good. Yes I'll admit I knew she was unhappy at times and she did reach out. There were times when I was unhappy too. I knew I should have done more to change. I made mistakes, but does that justify her actions? Does that justify her selfishly trying to fulfill her "happiness" by having an affair with another married man? In such a cliche' scenerio too - met him on a cruise- come on? She acts like our marriage problems totally justifies it - she shows no remorse.
It's just the classic "re-writing of marital history" b.s., Quart. And NO, that DIDN'T justify her having an affair. If she was that frigging unhappy, she should have sat you down and asked for a S or D before she did that. What she did was SELFISH, and now she's trying to trash all four years of your relationship to justify it.
