Can you seriously not read your posts and see that you're just seething with anger? All of the stuff you're proposing is pretty crazy. I mean, if you knew your W was doing something illegal, why didn't you report it sooner?
"And the crime isnt a violent or petty one...but ethically speaking it isnt something a good role model for a child would engage in for years."
Is it illegal or not? There is no gray area. If you think it's going to make you look like a hero, it's not. It's going to show the judge that you two are an extremely dysfunctional pair and might take your D away to Child Protective Services. Seriously.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.