You know, I was just thinking about you today. I'm sorry it has hit you hard. Can you get together with a good girlfriend to just have some fun and forget about it for a couple hours?
What was the final determination on the house? I just hate thinking that he's saddled you with that hunk of junk the he wanted. I think once you get out of there and can start over in a new place that will help you a lot.
I'll keep an eye out for you in Surviving.
If you love somebody, set them free. http://tinyurl.com/2empx2g