Does it make you feel better that I am in the EXACT same boat? I'm going on about 3 months now and I'm feeling pressure to file but also think about waiting it out just a bit more.
I'm disgusted and tired too feel you more than anything. I too am also worried that getting too detached will push me towards no turning back. I guess that's why I haven't totally detached because of that reason.
I'm hearing you A....loud and clear. I can't offer you advice but I needed to let you know I'm where you're at emotionally and chronologically.
Oh...and btw - my H looks like crap right now too. It's not just me either it's everyone saying he doesn't look himself (he's gained 18 lbs)
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M44 H41 M20 T23 3 older teens Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy" EA Nov 09 w/coworker Another PA in Mar 10 I Filed Apr 10 D final Dec 10
feel you more than anything. I too am also worried that getting too detached will push me towards no turning back. I guess that's why I haven't totally detached because of that reason.
