I can't believe you are in your early 30s. I don't know what your wife is like, but you both sound developmentally challenged as far as rational thinking. Wow.
Let's play nice, knittedscarff!
No one knows what is completely going on here with nsw1222's situation. Yes, it seems like he is feeling like letting some anger loose, but who hasn't thought of it? So the prison thing seems extreme, but maybe there's something very valid here that HE needs to explore with the lawyer.
NSW: Is it possible that your anger is making it hard to see where you could improve the situation for your kids? I might have missed it, but if there was something criminal going on, KnittedScarff has a point - you need to separate this issue from your marriage/divorce. If you feel it would be something you would send to the police for any friend/family, then do it.
If you'd never do it for your own family or friends, you might want to think carefully after talking to your IC.
