You have confirmed what most of the old timers on here already knew.
I'm very sorry mate.
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Does she not have a conscience? The woman I loved, married, planned to have kids with, planned to spend the rest of my life with -- went on a weekend cruise, met and fooled around with a married man, came home started an EA with him, manipulated me into moving out, and then slept with him.
There is nothing a cheating wife won't do to propagate her affair.
There is no level low enough in terms of behaviour, no level they won't stoop to.
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This cannot be real - this is not really happening!!
It is real.
It is happening.
Breathe, hold your balls, make a plan then execute it coldly.
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She confirmed she went with him. She also confirmed he is still married "but he and his wife are not together."
My wife said the exact same thing to her OM.
Find out who he is, who his wife is and expose this piece of insect life to his wife.
Remember all cheaters lie - to everyone and anyone, about everything and anything.
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The whole time we have been together I always thought so highly of her character- I thought she was so good and would never cheat.
So did I.
So did all of us.
I'm very sorry Q9.
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I feel like such a fool...
She has taken you for one Quart9. It's time to show her who you really are, that you're not one.
GH31
Me: 46 W: 46 T: 23 M: 20 DS12 DD11 DS5
W left: 01/28/08 Discovered OM: 02/26/08 W back for 9 days: 04/08 W returned 05/21/08 EA/PA - 01/08-07/09 W's MLC 2008-2014 (realised this much later)