CW, I still think your H isn't 100% sure. My WH was willing to file and said he would "because it wasn't right to make me wait" or what he was doing was wrong, etc. I am confident that if I said OK, he would have done it. Now I know in my case, it is not an MLC. So maybe they are different beasts (affairs vs MLCs).

But I think a person could walk into a lawyer's office and file for divorce without being 100% sure. I was going to do it last year at one point although I wasn't sure because I thought it was "the right thing/the best thing/ why the heck would I want him back" etc. Someone told me that there was no rush and suggested I wait. So I listened and hoped for the best (still am).

It is still good to hear others' perspectives, though! (like Knittedscarf! :-) )

So what has happened today? How are you?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004