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[awest1217]

Well...yesterday I got 3 texts from H which was low. I text him in the morning because the tub spout he likes they don't have in the store so I text him about that and I let S leave a message about how he had gone on the potty. H's first text was that he wasn't ignoring me, just busy. The owners actually sold the house so the they and the inspectors were coming this weekend and he had to get a lot of stuff cleaned, packed, etc.

Today nothing. I chose purposely this morning to not text him and to not text him after church because I always ask him if we are doing anything and why should I always plan my day around him. I did finally text him around 7 to see how his day went...nothing. I sent one more text saying I was sorry if he is mad about something and wondering if he is ignoring me, dead phone, busy, etc. I then added how S has been dry with no accidents all day. Good night and I love you. Still...Nothing. Oh well. Once again he can go a day without talking to me, but not OW...oh well. It is just weird because I talked to my parents tonight and they were hoping like me that H would come home, but I doubt it. One good note, last night and Friday night I drove past OW's house and her car was there so she didn't spend the night at H's...Yeah, but she might be tonight.

I although, had a great weekend. Beside the shower still not working, it was good. S has been doing well potty training. As I said above, no accidents today, and the only accidents yesterday were due to poop so if anyone out there has suggestions for helping a kid to poop on the potty, I would have a completely potty trained almost 2.5 year old. He is even staying dry at night and during nap.

I spent Saturday night at my brother and sister-in-law's house with a wide range of their friends; church people, family, friends from work, old friends, etc, playing games. It was fun to meet new people. One of my SIL's friends works with one of H's coworkers. I asked if she new the coworker and SIL's friend said yes, but doesn't like her, I said I agree. She asked why and I said because she encouraged H to have an inappropriate relationship with another coworker. She doesn't like the coworker because she doesn't have the right degree for the job she is doing and doesn't do it well. It was supposed to be no kids, but all my babysitters were at the night or out of town so S came with me. We both stayed out until midnight. It was very refreshing to spend time out and having fun.

Today after church went back to my brother's so S and his cousin could play. We gave cousin some of S's old toys (cousin is almost 1) and S asked all night last night to play with cousin so we went back today for that reason. Then we went over to my parents because they came back from TN and had Christmas presents from my other brother for S. They asked about H and I so I caught them up. They said if H came home, the was welcome at their house any time which was nice.

Right now I am going to get to sleep because I have a horrible headache...just horrible, and I am hoping for a 2 hour delay because of bad weather on the way, but I know it won't happen. Last week of the trimester so a little less busy for me. We will see if H texts me. I reached out and now I am going to just leave it in his hands. I just hope if he has decided to not move home that he tells me and not just go dark because that is so cowardly, but that is up to him.