And all it would have taken to prevent all this would have been for the OM to have gone away and her to have given me and our R/family another chance.
No. It would have taken a lot more. Among them, it would have taken you facing the fact that you have to grow up. That you have to start taking responsibility. That you stop with the martyr complex and blame game.
But reality can be so inconvenient at times. Eh?
Me 42 W 39 Married: 11 Jan 1998, T: Since 1992 First Bomb: Sep 2007 Confirmed A/OM: 4 Nov 2007 Kids: D10, S5 Reconciled and together again after (alot of) time and heartbreak. 3rd kid, S, born 2 Jan 2010.
